A decision and a lesson

Friday October 18, 2013

Recently I decided to stop reading. Well actually I didn’t Arty and Matt suggested I give it a break for a while and concentrate on more human, but none the less spook-connected pursuits.  One of the things that has always disturbed me a little about readings and I am guilty of this too, is people wanting to know what others are thinking and the outcome of situations that I believe should be about making choices for ourselves.  I am terrible for calling Chilly and saying “If I do this is it a good thing or a bad thing.” I am as guilty as everyone else. Even if you have a reading you can still make choices for yourself because all you get from a reading is; this is how things stand now and the possible consequences of other options. It was strange because once I had made the choice to stop “general readings” but not published it my next few readings cancelled as if to validate the suggestion by spooks.  Of course I like reading and proving that spook is with us and a part of our life, but there has to be a better use. 

As if by magic, spook magic you understand, a couple of days later a friend called with a spooky issue. He didn’t want to know about his domestic life, job choices or anything like that, it was about the strong presence of a spook around him and why it was happening. THIS is the work I prefer to do! I read for someone once, the most beautiful person who had health concerns and the spooks attached to her wanted to reassure her that although the problems were real the fears about her future were groundless and all would be well in the end.  That to me was “best use of spook” and the work they want to do too! So let me tell you a story that makes my point; Friend calls Ally and says, “What’s the deal with this spook, I can see feel and hear her but don’t know what she wants.” We validate that we are both seeing the same person and a few other things and then we go onto the warning the spook so desperately wanted to deliver.  Then as I am saying to my lovely friend, “I will ask them to look after you in the meantime,” as a ‘whilst this plays out or we avoid’ type of it contingency plan Matthew says to me “Finally a real job!” Off he went to be with my friend, suss it out and report back. So even he was feeling it and feeling a little useless although he has been a great help and a great laugh in readings, he too wants to add more meaning to the fact he and I can connect the two dimensions.

This morning Matthew reports in and Arty is in his chair and I am told “the blow has been softened, and thank you” and “most” of the crisis averted. The actual incident won’t be averted but the harm will be because the spooks worked their ethereal butts off to get the message through. Sure there is still some hinky news to come and a “situation” but at least we know now that the worst will not happen.

Now the spook who originally came with the message was not a family member or a friend of the person who called me. She was someone who cares deeply about this person because she cared deeply for someone she is associated with and recognised a true bond of friendship. She wanted to look after her close friends friend because in her eyes he is special too. As anyone would do if they were alive or on the other side of the firewall! 

What do we see here? Well we see a “non family or loved one” spirit working to get into someone else’s space to do a good thing, a kind thing.  This also demonstrates something equally important to the expansion of our understanding of spook. They are NOT confined and they have free will too. Spiritual energy is like light or microwaves (to simplify) and can travel, but like light or microwaves you need a stronger signal for a greater distance. Think of it as moving your computer further away from the modem or router and the signal weakens until some kind of booster or repeater is attached to it to make it stronger again. The picture you see on this page is my reading chair. It’s outside and I prefer to read at night when the human energy around me is more still. It’s a better connection.

The spirit, whom we shall call Leanne, made a conscious decision to help out but needed more than she had energetically to get through so then I became the signal booster and essentially made it stronger for my friend so we could get to the bottom of it. I also found her signal, Leanne’s, to be very strong because there was a “need” there and not just a curiosity.

I have always found my best and clearest readings are where there is genuine purpose and not just “where is my life heading.” We control where our life is heading by the choices we make.  So to clarify for now; if you need us; me, Matt, Arty and P we are there for you. I will read for you and we will do everything we can. If you just want to know if your boyfriend is cheating, or your kids will be successful when they are barely old enough to make choices for themselves then I don’t think I am the person for you. Let your kids make choices, support them and love them and spook will too and they will learn the lessons they need to learn. We must get out of the thinking that spook is a tool so we can avoid the lessons in life. We need them to evolve and grow both in the human and the spiritual world and they can't do that if they are told every step of the way what's coming.

I will always warn someone I am connected to if I feel there is danger. Spirit has saved me in the past and I know where they can that is something they will do, but sometimes they just can’t. Treat them with respect…you will get more out of them I promise. So do they.