Possession is 9/10th's of You Got Nothing!

Monday August 26, 2013

Today I want to talk about the less friendly spooks amongst us. Things that scare us and most of the time in the night. I have been accused of over simplifying some of my explanations of spook but I just say a big fat "meh" to anyone who thinks that, I write it - they check my homework and I press the "let's put this on the interwebs" button!

So let's ask that question first, why in the night?Obvious!! Night is the most still time in terms of energetic movement and things being stirred up by humans. It is the time when there is the least artificial energy produced; lights, electricity cars etc., which believe it or not interferes with spook energy (little known fact I read in the dark or outside...yep!) This is why most "ghost" stories focus on night because the ghosts do too! Secondly our minds are more still at night because we are tired and it is the mind that connects with spookland not any other part of us.  So energetically if there is a window caused by a calm period  (night time) the meanies might just get in, the same way if we leave a physical window open and burglars come in to rob us! This is why the basic law of spook is protection but some of us are slack, don't bother or don't know.

There is negative energy around us all the time and to think we can eradicate it from the planet is just plain stupid. But what do we do if we encounter mean human people? We tell them to go away or avoid them. It is much the same with things that frighten you from spook-side - tell them to go away and then imagine yourself closing a door to your spook space. That works most times for the numbers 1-5 on the mean spook scale of 1-10.

Well, some people will actually have a spook "stuck to them" who likes the fact they scare them or has other business being in their life, or so they think. I have read for a few people who have suffered trauma at the hands of others in the human and then seem to attract that kind of energy to themselves and in a few cases the attraction is actually the spirit of the dirty-doer who doesn't want to go and on and face what they did.  If this is the case and you feel you are being hounded by a strongly malevolent spook, you need someone who is strong enough spiritually to help with it. A recent situation was a friend had one with them and experienced abnormally dark thoughts (instead of his usual crazy ones!) and another friend actually physically felt the constant pressure of the "thingy" with him.  In both cases we talked about getting ourselves in a mind set where we weren't scared. Science tells us two negatives make a positive so scared+scary = extra charge. Secondly wish them well! Acknowledge they are with you and direct them towards the light. Imagine the white light and your gremlin being guided towards it (or dragged by their ears!). NEVER EVER pay someone who says they can rid you of a malevolent spook...seriously I know I am going to be beheaded for saying that but I don't believe it is something that we should have to pay for if we as mediums are true helping people. If a medium wants payment, talk to your local vicar. Unless of course you are some kind of idiot who has messed in spook and brought it on yourself - then you can cough up big time!

So how do we know if we have a mucky little hanger onnerer? Well aside from any physical interference we may feel one of the most frequent manifestations is thoughts of a lack of self worth or self harm. Seriously, that is the most common thought from people who have meddling spook-nitwits around them.  Some people experience negative emotions for no reason or do things that are out of character that are usually related to the hanging around spook too. Such as if he or she was a shoplifter in life we might have the urge to steal; if he took his own life to avoid judgement for bad deeds we may have similar thoughts. It is very very rare that "innocent suicides" those who take their own lives through mental illness and the like, ever manifest as malevolent spirits. They may be angry and unwilling to keep going at first but I don't subscribe to the fact all suicides are bad or evil. It's religious poppycock and in the spirit world baseless.

We must also remember that negative energy does not have to be actual spirit- people who erred whilst on earth, it can, in simple terms just be the manifestation of a negative "emotion." We all discharge negative energy through out thoughts and out deeds and it has to go somewhere! Visually think similar to the cliche of a 'black cloud hanging over you', because essentially with psychic sight that's what it looks like in it's raw state! Negative like positive can also manifest if it needs to...remember the lady who thought she saw Jack the Ripper in her room covered in blood? Negative energy can also pretend to be your Grandma or your loved and lost friend, this is why protection is so important - like it or not they are smarter than us!

So if you think you have a lingerer - which is quite different to a possession and should not be confused, tell yourself you don't want it to linger longer and start pushing the negative thoughts out toward the light and old Lingerbelly will follow right behind!

Death Becomes Us

Sunday August 25, 2013

Lots of people ask me about death. Seriously...when will I die? As if I am going to tell you THAT! There is a curiosity about it and I suppose that's because once you have passed over you never ever really know what's waiting until you get there yourself. No matter what opinionated old bats like me say!  As most who deal with me know, if I want answers I want them from spook straight up no messing around. I tend not to take too much of other peoples opinions on. That's not to say I think other people are wrong and I am right when they talk about the final coming of the Grim Reaper. We all have different realities and different ways of interpreting things, sort of like a personal comfort zone when dabbling in spook. My interpretations are based on "conversations." Usually I bale Arty up and ask him what's what so here goes;

When you die of old age, natural causes or terminal illness the passing from here to there is usually quite fluid and peaceful.  It's like you go into a dream state, see those you love, realise it's not a dream and there you are out in the universe with other souls as an energy and not a physical being. Remember that we are only shown physical form by spirit because that's what we need to be able to relate to it. I used to see Arty as he was in life, tall broad shouldered, thinning grey hair and slightly walrus mustache and that deliciously comforting smell of some kind of man soap and tobacco. Then as we became closer I didn't need the visual from him, I just know his energy. I think that means not only is he evolved but I am getting there too in terms of my senses. There is no doubt the slow boat to Spiritland involves some kind of evolutionary process but what that really is, I don't know for sure. I know we must review our life and the emotional lessons we have learned. Review our bad deeds and our good deeds and then it's like we are graded as to whether we can keep on going up or whether we have more to learn and we have to go into the green room and wait to be called again. 

Death by accident or other unexpected means I can only tell you what Matty told me; When he went it was like he was tied to the earth because it wasn't expected and he didn't go up so much as across. We as humans are two part beings; spiritual and biological. The biological Matty had gone but the spiritual wasn't ready to go forward as his death was not planned. So his energy, the energy that was tied to the human him stayed around and I know there are many many people who encountered him at this time so know it's true. We now know that something about my energy made it easy for him to be with me in particular. I didn't know him in life (I feel like I did) but clearly my frequency and his made it easy for him to 'jack my spook wifi' in particular. He somehow needed to be "in my spook space" to stay here, as if we were magnets of some kind. I can't really explain it but I am told by Arty it was an attractive energetic thing. Maybe Matt was my little brother in a last life, or a son or we just shared an energetic path or energy make up. That is something he and I will know when I get to the gates and he is standing there with a V&T for me! I had no objection to him being around because although he worked me hard, he was a laugh and he gave me something I didn't have before, confidence. When spooks come to me like that I "see" them and treat them like normal people and I don't give a hoot who thinks I am mad!

Once Matt had finished doing his rounds (had a few vodka's, posed for a few photo's!) it was really time to go. He got a tap on the shoulder from what I can only describe as the God energy. It was time for him to pass over properly and become a spirit of the universe rather than a spirit of the earth. This is why in recent photographs he hasn't come as a wispy smoking shape like previously but a bright white light, because he is in the light now. 

I was lying on my bed wondering where he was. I can "feel" he is not attached to me any more but I can also feel his different energy. As I was wondering it was like my room filled with a light and I saw a doorway (like the doorway in the previous blog photo that he had shown me) and he was standing in it. The light was coming through the doorway into my room and not in the other direction. He waved briefly smiled and went through. He was showing me where he had gone and I got the sense (message) that this had been the day before his Mum's birthday. He is a grown up spook now.

In summary I think if death is accidental, sudden or unexpected we seem to have the ability to round off things on earth before we continue our journey. We still go through the same spiritual evolution but we can hover around in the physical a while until we reconcile that we have gone and tie up a few loose ends. When we are evolved we can come back but we aren't as "close" to the human self. We need a finely tuned medium to find us as our energy is now much more refined and dare I say it, superior (Oh yeah you love that don't you Hat Boy...being superior! :) )

Some deaths are such that the spirit does not want to go on. Whether it is fear of facing their misdeeds or attachment to a loved one, who knows the real reason, but it remains that "earth bound" spirits are generally the easiest to see and feel - even if you don't think you are a particularly spiritual person or have the right radar.

I do hope this makes some sense to someone out there and remember,  when we grieve for a loss, we are grieving for our own loss because eventually those who have passed over have far more peace than we do. It's ok says Matty. It's ok now...and I know it is.

Matthew Lawson

Friday August 9, 2013

This is specifically for Matt’s friends.  

A few months ago a lady whom I had never heard of before booked a reading with me.  As I tried to open her “spook door” a young man in spirit stood in front of it and refused to let anyone in for her reading. He just kept saying “I want to talk to my Mum,” and simply refused to let me go on with this ladies reading.  In the end I had to tell her I was having problems because of the intruder and asked her if she knew this young man I described, someone that people thought had taken his own life recently, because he kept telling me this woman knew his Mother.  He simply refused to go away until I got a promise that she would contact his mother.  

It took us a while and eventually we worked out that she did in fact know his mother but they hadn’t had contact for over ten years. The “spook” was and is, Matt Lawson and of course his Mum is Tracey. I read for Tracey more than a month later as it was up to her to contact me and Matt decided he was going to stay a while with me! I have never had that with a reading before and am sure I won’t again. 

Many of Matty’s friends have asked me to read for them to save you all some money and time Matthew and I would like to tell his story. I write this with Matt’s Mum’s permission as I believe he and I have definitely validated to her that he is hanging out at my house on and off! I am sure many of you don't understand mediumship and I can only hope that the picture (right) explains how I see things, but of course not old Victorian chicks wearing bedsheets but you know what I mean and that was the best I could find to make the point. If you look at my last post you will actually "see" Matty in a photograph! This is how I see Matty when he drops in, usually in the middle of the night or he lies on my bed with his legs crossed and his arms folded behind his head. Whoever drinks either rum and coke or bourbon - he views me like you, I think that means one of the boys and I'm not sure if that's a compliment or an insult! He has a huge sense of humour and likes to mess around to get my attention. He has a soft side and many of you might not know this, he was easily hurt.  A young man with an entrepreneurial spirit, many big ideas and a big heart. He loved, laughed, cried and drank to excess.  He was there for others when he could be, but his first love was his family. His sense of fun and stupidity often amuses me. He also advises you all "not to party when you are down" and I think you ALL know what he means. It cost him his life and he doesn't want to see any of you where he is now.

A letter from Matty to his friends;

My death was an accident. I didn’t plan it, but some of you know that sometimes I got myself into a dark place and I know some of you have been there too. That wasn’t why it happened, I was in over my head in some ways but you know me, I always look for another angle. I got myself into a situation that I didn’t think I could get out of and at the time I couldn’t get help. I didn’t mean it and if I hadn’t been doing what I was doing at the time (You know what I mean…..  and he gives me a male  name but I am not writing it) then I wouldn’t have. I’m so angry with myself.  I realise from this side I had and still have many friends but the few of you that weren’t honest will have to wear that in your own life because we all make choices that we can’t change. Whatever happened, it’s not coming out here so go forward and hopefully you will learn from it like I have. If you do nothing else good in your life please give my Mum the money back. (name deleted)

This is a strange place, trust me you don’t want to be here. No beer no booze and I can’t find anywhere to party! It took me a while to realise what had happened, anyone who has thoughts of doing themselves in needs to think again. I miss my life, my friends and my family. Some of the boys know I have been around them and I have tried to send messages, but it’s fucking hard because I haven’t done what I am supposed to do and you guys are holding me back. To the girls, yeah you know who you are, I’ve visited you all and most of you know it by now. Please don’t be sad, because I feel it and it makes it hard for me here, I feel like I am being pulled in a million directions. I don’t want Saturday to be another wake, can we remember the partying and the fun instead? My family needs me now. I am sorry if you think I let you down, but we can’t change it now.

There are a few of you that aren’t doing so well, the old chick will help you, she won’t charge for it (he is referring to three men here but again I am not going to name them). I want to say thank you to Donna I WILL try and help you back, but you are one crazy woman with a big heart. Thank you for helping me find my family.

Your friend always,
Matty 

(to his friends and Matt to his family)

I have also been asked to add "I can see all of you now Blondie ha! ha! ha!" and "confirm" the bird which I think is maybe a hawk? 

Told Off By Hat Boy and Henry

Tuesday August 6, 2013

Ok so talking to Henry he pointed out that I am possibly blind as a bat.  Maybe I am....so off I went to check with Hat Boy and sure enough he did not bare his backside for all to see. Consider this my retraction and apology mate! He says I have a dirty mind (jury's out on that one) and had to actually point himself out to me...see the amended picture! You can clearly see him with his back to us with what looks like the sunlight on his shoulders...yeah well he is still taking a P!  If he had pointed this out to me at the time rather than just telling me he was taking a wizz in the bushes it would have been a whole lot easier and I would not have assumed (because I know him these days and he never ceases to surprise me with some of the stunts he pulls...like the lemons and the pictures and turning things on when I won't talk to him in the middle of the night...!) that he would do something like drop his duds at me!

I am sorry Hat Boy ..... I sullied your otherwise pristine reputation....NOT!  The question remains though..........who's bum IS it!!!

Boys Day Out!

Monday August 5, 2013

Today I am going to do something that no writer should ever do - I am going to take the credit for someone else's work!  But let me tell you the story first....without any fear that anyone will think I am stark raving bonkers because I am waaaay past that!

A very dear friend of mine who doesn't want to be named ('fraidy cat!) is also a very spiritual person. He has this "habit" of attracting spook to him and on occasions he has hijacked a few of mine to - we cant keep secrets from each other and one of the strange things we are able to do which happens over and over again is send the same text with the same content at the same time!  One of the things I have always known is what we think and speak is always heard by someone out there in the ether and so here goes proof.

My mate who we shall call Henry just for the sake of it, called me and said he was off to the beach to meditate. He had a lot on his mind and wanted some quiet time, a good thing to do when you feel like that. Henry mentioned that he felt his long departed friend whom we shall call Geoff, was with him. Me being me and invading his spook space, said "he sure is and he's waiting in the car so stop messing around and get on with it!" Henry admitted it had taken him a while to get his act together and get going! I could clearly see Geoff with his unruly curly hair sitting in my friends car with one leg out of the passenger side as if he were yelling out to someone to get a move on, which was actually exactly what he was doing.  So off Henry went, and for a fleeting second I then saw Hat-Boy, it's not an unusual thing for him to zap in and out now and again and I have to be honest these days I mostly just acknowledge him and he communicates if he has anything to say or he just comes and goes. I didn't really think anything of it when he looked at me and said "I'm going out with the boys I will see you later." As he doesn't come from the same geographic area as me I assumed he was off home to terrorise some of his mates and thought nothing of it.

When Henry got back and showed me the photos he took (see below) we both realised something truly amazing; The tall figure with the legs (Fig 1) is a perfect likeness of Geoff with his stringbean legs and long out of control hair! We both knew straight away who it was.  Further along there seemed to be another figure that wasn't in the previous photo but appeared in the last one....  I was sure I could see a bare bum or at least the outline of someone's bottom!! (Fig 2 - Not there Fig 3 clearly there) and maybe the hood of a jacket or something. Straight away spook told me how the young man standing there with his back to us had died and Hat-Boy immediately zoomed in and said "I took a p*ss in the bushes!!" (Quote!) It all tied in together! Seriously! Showing your bum as proof of afterlife isn't really the most profound way of doing it but it was him all over to lark about, I think it was just the shape though and nothing as rude as flashing at us! Although HB doesn't know Geoff or Henry (well he probably does know Geoff now as they are both in the same place!) I was intrigued as to how he had overheard a mortal conversation between Henry and I and decided to tag along!!! I know he likes visiting people (he was rather a social guy in life too!) and he has popped up in lots of readings that he has nothing to do with so I suppose I should have expected it really!

The third image took a while and to be honest I don't understand what they meant when the boys said "that's the door we came through. If you look closely though at the first second and third photo's, it does actually look like a doorway with someone standing by it which I am told is Henry's gatekeeper. I won't pretend to understand that bit and maybe they will tell me more later about that as it isn't something I have come across before. The photos were all taken literally one after the other so the exact same time of day (you can tell by the clouds).

So what do we really get from this? Well, something within Henry enabled them to materialise enough to be photographed (no other photos in the same spot show them) and that spooks like a larf too you know! Like I have always said, the spooks like that are the same as us, they just don't have a body ....and boys will be boys!

Creation of Truth. Is it a lie?

Saturday August 3, 2013

I've been a bit slack with the daily spook recently, sorry workload tried to kill me but in the end I seem to have conquered it! I decided today to talk about the creation of truth, although the following is extracted  an article from a magazine that I wrote about protection it pretty much applies in all respects to creating a reality. It's a science and not an art form and is all about conditioning the human brain and the energy it produces. I know it makes me sound a little eccentric and you may be right, but at the end of the day the basic law of physics is you can't destroy energy you can only reform it. So the "electrical" (for want of a better word) energy produced by our thinking and thought patterns...where does it go?  I would like to remind you that I don't make this up, I go direct to the source, which for this kind of article is usually Pasteur, Arty or Tesla with it seems some recent input from Da Vinci. So if you didn't think I was nuts before THAT sentence...do you now?

The laws of attraction and spiritual protection are both based upon the creation of a truth outside of the human self. Many people come to me and say, “I surrounded myself with the white light but it didn’t work.” ‘It didn’t work’ usually means the subject can sense a negative energy or has started feeling darker emotions without understanding why and we have to clear their spiritual space quick smart! Protecting one’s spiritual self is paramount, especially for novices to the spirit realm. It is also the very first lesson about the creation of truth. There is a vast difference between “imagining” oneself surrounded by white light and protection, and actually “believing” oneself to be protected.

As spirit can create a vision of themselves in human form and use the spoken word without the necessary biological attributes so can we in the material world create truth from our own energy. This is quite simply because we are using the exact same energetic source as spirit to do this; the soul and the subconscious. The only difference is our energy to accomplish this remains housed within the human and spirit has already exited that phase. We must remember that the mind and the brain are two separate things and not let one interfere with the other. The brain is a physical organ and the mind is the product of our entire conscious and subconscious experiences to that particular moment in time and totally unique to each individual. It is the mind energy (part of which makes up the individual soul) that remains constant after our brain ceases to exist. So for the creation of truth and spiritual protection, it really is ‘mind over matter.’

The reason LOA and protection so rarely work in the human realm is we don’t actually create truth. We ‘hope’ for it, we wish for it and we ask for it; but deep within at the subconscious level where it really counts, we don’t truly believe it. If someone decides to jump off a roof, thinking that because they believe they will land unscathed that will be the outcome, just won’t work! At the conscious human level our high-jumping subject knows they will almost certainly be injured! This is a clear demonstration of a ‘matter over mind’ situation rather than the reverse which is required. It is a result of human conditioning in the material world and nothing to do with our spiritual self. We are raised to know danger and its consequences, so manifesting truth is about learning to loosen the ties that bind to the human condition and greater acceptance of the spiritual. This is the ultimate key to the absolute creation of spiritual truth.

Martial artists demonstrate LOA by chopping through bricks and wood uninjured. Like the doctrines of martial arts, the manifestation of the creation of truth is recorded as far back as the original Taoist culture and some of the earliest documented spiritual teachings. These teachings are based on the theory that energy came before matter (soul before body) so the energy source had to create the matter. In this way the creation of truth by our soul self really is a lesson in ‘back to basics’ in every possible way.

The creation of absolute truth is an ability that comes with ‘mind practice.’ Learning to filter out the conscious, so it does not override the spiritual (the subconscious), with doubt and human emotion. Remember that our subconscious is who we really are and at the core of our being. It is what continues to be long after physical life has ended. Mastering the art of mind over matter is like meditation, it takes time, will, self-belief and practice.

The process can be started with one or two daily affirmations; I AM protected. I AM successful; together with visualisation. Use the same visualisation for each affirmation, each time. Don’t let doubt creep in because that is like taking an eraser to your blackboard of truth! Eventually your self-belief and self-confidence will build as you become more practised. You can then expand on it from there.