Reading & Righting

Wednesday June 26, 2013

Yesterday Kim and I were having our usual daily rant. Although she is one funny woman, I am funnier and that's pretty much all there is to it!  Having said that we often digress from the frivolities to get serious about things we are passionate about. One thing we have in common is a need for change in the "Metaphysical Industry" and yesterdays subject wasn't dissected with any less passion. A good quote that came from the conversation is "Good intent does not equal good practice' and this is something we both know. I have a bee in my straw bonnet about people who don't understand the basics of human nature reading for people and Kim gets on her high horse (well it's a unicorn actually because she is a Princess) about readers making it about THEM when they read. "Look at me, I'm great I know what colour socks you wore yesterday..."  Sometimes great harm is done by insensitive or egotistical reading.

A medium talks with dead people, a psychic reads you. So there is the definition out of my very own nutshell, A medium should give what they get and respect spook, a psychic should be diplomatic and sensitive in their delivery because the interpretation is theirs rather than just passing on a direct message from someone that we have no right to mess it. As I write this I have to have an ego moment as my beloved Arty says "Well said my dear!" I love him he's always around when I need support and encouragement.

Intent is how we are judged, so good intent does matter but sometimes it gets overridden by human emotions and actions that shouldn't be in the mix at all. If you go for a reading remember, if it's a good practitioner you are going to get the truth but get them to define whether they are a psychic or a medium and if they are a medium who they are talking to in spirit. They aren't a medium if they can't tell you something about the look, the feel or even the name of the person they are talking to! 

As we folk should always "be careful what we wish for" mediums and psychics should truly "be careful who we read for."

And finally some spook for you! As most people know I have had Hat Boy around me recently, but his time in my up close and personal spook space is coming to an end, although we will still be in touch - the idiot says "I will send you a postcard and ring every day!!" as I write this such is his silly sense of humour. I will miss him not jumping out on me when he thinks he is being funny and worry that my readings will be terrible without him! He loves reading for women!!  He will go on and then come back as for now his place is with his family. His Mother wants desperately to be able to contact him herself and although he does mess around a lot in the house and give her plenty of evidence he is there she wants to see him! Neither of us have any choice in whether he stays or goes.

When we lose someone we love dearly they will hover in and out but they will rarely connect closely with close loved ones until the grieving process is over. This is because our grief energy acts like a magnet that keeps drawing them back and they can't continue their spiritual evolution (go on) as it should be. Remember every thought is a communication with spook so if you are thinking about them all day you are pulling them back probably without realising it. Once they can go on and 'go through the process" if you like they can come back and be with us but it is a different energy. Hat Boy is currently "human energy" so pretty much who is he but without his body and very close to the human plane. Hence the fact he can wreak so much havoc at 3am looking for someone to talk to because "everyone at my house is asleep!" Or worse sneaking up on me when I am having a midnight snack to yell at me and tell me what I am eating (blue brie) is "disgusting"! He also tells me to tell Mum not to forget to tell you know who to zip it! 

So if you have  reading and who you wanted isn't there - remember you aint the boss of spook and neither are they!