Why Not All Mediums are Readers

Friday November 22, 2013

Well here I go again with more neck sticking outing!  Well I guess the first and easist answer to this one is some people who are mediums just don't want to practice. I have found that mainly with men. I have a dear friend of mine who greets me at the door with "I see you bought your friends with you old girl," and then he can tell me who! Other than that he won't have any of it, "I just shut 'em out he says." There are more people in the world who have mediumistic tendencies than don't. Yep! That is what I am told.

The reason I posed the question though was not for such an obvious answer and I suppose what I really meant was "Why not all mediums should be or can be readers." 

To answer this we have to hang out in the mortal world because even though we are receiving from the spook planet we still have to join the dots. We all have different personalities, everyone knows if I am asked a question you are going to get the answer, my spooks are rapid fire and to the point. Sometimes I know I am a bit direct and some clients don't really like this or worse, it doesn't do them any good but you can't do a full psychological assessment on someone before you read for them! Some people like the upfront approach though as I must admit I don't talk much about anything other than the spook talk and they do the talking.  If you ask me and my spooks if your bum looks big in something then you will get a straight answer. If you are wearing a size ten when you are really a fourteen, they are gonna tell you straight up and I am going to pass it on. Get the picture? So in this case there are times where people may be fragile and I deliver my reading with a big whammo and probably shouldn't. So it's not that I shouldn't be a reader it's that I should be careful because my intrinsic personality is to be dead straight and out with it.

The other issue is impartiality. You have to remember when you have a reading that we don't live in your world or your reality. You say po-tarto and I say po-tato, that kind of thing. So if we don't have the ability to detach and give what we get in context we can send people (accidentally) off on a wild goose chase, worry them or cause issues that weren't there in the first place. So you see to be a medium you also have to be very aware of other people and their feelings and more importantly be able to control your own.

Another issue (sigh) is the old ego thing. We all have ego and without it we wouldn't get out of bed in the morning. The fact is though that some mediums enjoy the "look at me" factor "look how right I am" rather than the "I hope this helps."  As Chilly and I were saying this morning, if you are a medium and you have to advertise or self promote based on how good you are...get a job in Coles instead because eventually spook will either take your ego to talk or you will fall over because of it.  BUT we should not confuse ego with self confidence. Two different things although both are just as appropriate under some cirsumstances as they are inappropriate under others.  People who are really fanning their tail feathers (thanks Percy) as the driving force simply should not be doing it in my view, because once you are blinded by ego and the need for recognition it gets out of control and you tend to forget where you came from.  I can't tell you how many people when I was working in publishing the last time would tell me they wanted to be "the next John Edward." They want the money and the fame not his life. How can they want what he has he is such a private man that you have no idea what he has other than money, fame a wife and two kids really.  Ego at work again. Show me the money is a really bad place for a medium to start from. We should all remember that John started accidentally, he didn't actually ask for it or hope for it!

Some people shouldn't be mediums because they aren't. If a medium struggles or get's a lot of bad feedback, has to spend more on advertising than they make then there is something wrong too and the universe is saying "this is not for you."

I'm not saying I make the rules I am just saying in the new wave of the new age everyone wants to be a medium and we probably all could be if life's individual circumstances allowed it. But like every profession, many more can learn it than should be doing it.  I have no plans to be a medium for the rest of my life.

Please contact Arty if you have any complaints about today's Daily Spook.

Should Beginner Mediums Read for Friends...?

Thursday November 21, 2013

I don't think there is a right answer to that question but in my opinion and that of my spooks it's a no, well when you are learning anyway. If I read for friends, close friends or family I tend to second guess, and re check and worry that I am wrong. However with friends and family though theirs are the spooks that make impromptu visits the most, and if that happens and they talk I don't even think twice, I pass it on because I am not sitting there trying to read, I am generally doing something non-spooky and someone pops up!

Many newbies are told by their teachers and mentors to practice on friends. I was lucky because my teacher/mentor was both so I used to practice on her and sometimes (accidentally) spin the most unholy bullshit when I had my training wheels on! So why do I think it's a bad thing?

With friends you care, and that's not to say that when reading for others we don't care, it's why we do it in the first place. But we want what we want for friends, good things happy things and things to go right. I am lucky that my teacher never took offence to some of the drama I came out with seriously! She knew it was practice though and thankfully took it in her stride and was also a good enough medium to know when I was waffling.

When we read for friends the mortal and emotional us can come into play, especially if we don't check out of the human side of things before we read. What happens if we get something that is bad? Can we really detach to continue the reading if we are telling a friend we love that (for example) their husband is about to leave or become ill? More experienced mediums can read for who the heck they like, because they are good enough at it and on top of it, they are absolutely sure of their human self and their spiritual self because their own learning path is such that they know the difference. Learning to feel the difference between a spooky message and a thought is one of the toughest parts of starting out. When we are practising we aren't experienced at this and that's why it can be dangerous, especially if we get one thing correct and then something else which may not be accurate but is taken on good faith.

When I first started I just put it out there that I was going to read and offered freebies. I got requests, literally, from all over the world! I couldn't possibly be influenced by my own emotions so had no choice but to honour what I was getting without adding my opinion or my interpretation. It went ok, I think I had one in five that thought I was a faker which was ok as no money was changing hands and no one could see my red face! I kept doing that until I felt I was doing it with accuracy, or enough accuracy to be able to call myself a practising medium and do it with confidence. 

So if you have your training wheels on and want to give it s shot - practice on strangers. There's no background, no human influence and you will know without a doubt whether you are ready. That's my two cents worth anyway.

Tomorrow: Why not all mediums are readers.... 

Sex and the Modern Spirit

Wednesday November 11, 2013

Yeah you know you all like to read a little bit about sex, even if you pretend you don't! So many people ask me if spook knows or worse, OMG! sees us when we are having sex!  Well there are a couple of answers to that, and they are yes and no.  One of the things Matt likes to do when he is involved in a reading is comment on peoples sex lives! Well he's young so I guess that's to be expected and he really only dos it with people his own age! Arty tends to be a little more diplomatic and as he was a doctor in life he talk in more clinical terms, P is just straight up but a passionate and feisty woman she is not squeamish about the subject either! It's not something we shy away from as a team so when I got to asking the question they all chipped in!

So what's the deal when we are getting down and dirty?  Well first up we must remember that when we "see" spook we are seeing them, they aren't necessarily seeing us, they don't need to. What we look like has no relevance in their world.  They see only our spiritual self, the energetic self the part of us that belongs in their world and the human part doesn't. Like I have said in the past I "feel" spooks before I see them and spooks essentially feel us and don't bother seeing in the way that we do. So let's say we are having wild sex with someone we love, they don't see the nitty gritty of the naked bodies and all that writhing and slithering but they do sense the energy, the passion and the intensity of it. So, in a nutshell spooks are not perverts! 

However sexual energy is very very strong and in some cases less than nice spooks will use that energy to fuel themselves; particularly, and apologies for getting all goring and dark, if the sex is not consensual or in other ways unacceptable because then the energy is not borne out of love, or human passion which is a raw and basic emotion, but is borne out of power and fear but none the less incredibly intense.  The sex act, no matter whether consensual or otherwise is one of the few times when our spiritual and emotional self can get the better of us; we are carried away by the emotion, feeling or power of it and are unable to temper it once we are in there.  

Many malevolent spooks purposely attach to sexual deviants, rapists and others who have less than loving thoughts and feelings about the sex act. Generally such malevolence will transfer to the innocent party as well. A sad fact but true, because in doing this they are adding to the energy source by attaching to someone who is a victim, powerless and if you like spiritually defenceless. It's a complicated principal according to Arty, but this is one of the reasons other than the human psychological explanation where many people who are subjected to sexual violence or violation as young people will actually find they have similar urges themselves. I have been taught by Arty from the beginning that although we are all living a human existence and have our unique psychological make up borne out of our learning, environment and genes, spooks can also influence our mental health/behaviours. The most extreme example of this is possession. As we have discussed before spook can influence our thoughts so the power of the meanie can be used in this way because the sexual energy is one of the most powerful because in simple terms it is one of our most basic instincts. Instinct being the keyword here, as it comes from within our spiritual self, it is instinctive and the sexual urge does not need to be learned from anyone it's there as we grow as humans.

Homosexual sex is not counted by spook as a bad thing; sorry but let's never forget nothing about the spook world is judgmental and Arty clearly tells me it is the power to love that overrides everything and who you sleep with within that love just doesn't rate a mention by spook. Quite simply they love that you are in love because it's a positive emotion. If you are homosexual and don't care who you sleep with because the sex act it's self is physical. It is a phalacy and borne out of nothing more than ignorance to think that homosexuality between two consenting people can be attributed on any level to any kind of evil, bad energy or mental affliction. Don't get me started I could go on all day, but God is NOT selectively judgmental. And for the record...all three of my spooks think gay marriage should be legalised and I do too. Love is what it is and thank God for that.

In terms of spooks actually "seeing" the sex act, well not really. A few times Matt has been in on a reading and poked a little fun at someone when he has known something about their sex life or who they have slept with but quite honestly I think that is Matt being naughty and not spooks in general! They don't talk to you or appear during the physical act of sex because we aren't receptive to it as our mind and our body is elsewhere but they don't stand at the end of the bed waiting for you to finish so they can talk! 

So there you have it, in another one of Arty's nutshells with a little help from my friends!

Why Do Spooks Use Signs and Symbols

Monday November 18, 2013

Seriously why do they do that? I must admit I have found it frustrating when one minute Arty is talking to me and the next he is showing me something. One minute P is waltzing across the lounge (literally, she does that a lot) and the next she shows me a beautiful sapphire ring, for example. When Matt first came he spoke to me as he would if he were this side of the cloud cover, he was adamant, "I'm not going until you promise"...but in more recent times he has brought only a few words or a picture. Trust me you wouldn't want to see some of the images he brings me!  Anyway I got to thinking how come we don't just yabber on like a couple of old mates when they appear?

Well, we go back to that old chestnut, energy and the mind.  First of all we must understand that spooks do not have unlimited energy that they can use willy nilly when they like to get their message across. They have spook existences far beyond the reaches of our comprehension. The energy has to come from somewhere when they communicate though. Those who have passed over recently tend to have more ability to communicate in the human than those who have passed over long ago because they can draw on the literally, dying embers of their physical energy too. 

This is also why many spooks appear in dreamstate, particularly soon after they have passed. They still have remnants of the human and use our dreamstate because it is literally the path of lease resistance. I know when I first started seeing spook that I would get all excited and as such my energy would change and interfere with theirs, whereas when we are asleep we have no conscious control and therefore don't get a spike in emotion that may disrupt the connection.  

But why when a medium is reading do we say "I have a man called Sam here and he is showing me a book, was he a writer or do you have a book of his?"  Why doesn't Sam just open up and say "I left her a book in my will," so he can validate himself (which is what those kinds of things are for) and then get onto the good stuff? 

Well when they use signs and symbols they are combining their energy and ours so they don't have to create the whole thing from scratch which takes a lot of juice I can tell you. Let me give you an example that I hope is relatively simple (Arty always makes them simple he knows sometimes I can't get my head around it!);

Sam the spook comes into a reading for Sally.  Sam left Sally a book in his will and was also an insurance broker. So when I look at him I see a man with a book wearing  a bowler hat. So I tell Sally this and say - he is holding a book out to you so I feel he gave you a book. He is wearing a bowler hat so that suggests to me he was a business man.  Sally says yes, recognises Sam and we go on. They have connected.

Let's say on the other hand Sam just came through appeared so I could describe him and said to me "Hi I am Sam, I was a businessman and I left her Sally complete Encyclopedia Brittanica in my will"

The first option Sam uses what is in Sally's mind and mine. Hence when we say "spooks connect." He knows in my spook language a bowler hat means a business man because I am English you see, so the bowler hat is part of my thoughts and memories that he draws on to make his point. It's already there he doesn't have to create it. He uses Sally's memory of the book in the same way. Let's say he used 4 parts of his own energy and three of Sally's and three of mine which means because he can use her and my energy he can stay a little longer and communicate at will when it comes to the important stuff.

In the second scenario it ALL comes from Sam and his energy and it has to be at exactly the right frequency that I can hold him for long enough. He has to manifest AND create the message from scratch in an environment of changing energy and so he uses the whole 10 energy points and is pooped before he begins!

This is why when we hear spooks speak "out loud" there is generally only a word or a few words because it takes a lot of energy to come into the physical and manifest speech. It's way easier to use what is already in someone's subconscious or memory bank and fish that out. This is why sometimes they don't appear and say "Don't cross the road today chicken, you'll get run over" but they give us a "feeling"...because it takes way to much energy to do it the human way because, duh...they aren't and yet we expect them to act like humans.

When I read for people I always say that I 'feel' the spooks first, I can feel if they are male or female and I can feel maybe their personality or ailments. Once the "connection" has been established (and here think of it as a spook physically plugging into me) they can use my energy to manifest and give a clearer picture. teamwork at it's spooky best! At the end of the day all spooks are just energy and they need our spiritual energy (our minds which is why many mediums "see in their heads") to interact or they simply couldn't do it. Another thing is that I like to read in the dark or at least outside where there is less artificial energy, lights, computers etc. This I feel helps them and it certainly makes a difference to me.  Maybe I have an uber sensitive radar that is easily interfered with, I don't know but I find being in natural surroundings brings a much cleaner reading.

This is much the same as giving malevolence power. We create fear energy that they use to frighten us!

As Arty is my mentor, there is clearly a common frequency with us that makes it easy for him to be around me and draw on his energy and mine to give me what I need to write. 

I hope this simple explanation helps you understand a little more of their world. Essentially, they use what is already there because it's just to hard to behave like a human when you're not.

As told to me by Arty with thanks to P,  Nikola and Louis for their input and advice.

Tomorrow "Sex and the Modern Spook" ! Stay tuned!

Why Family Aren't Guides or Gatekeepers

Sunday November 17, 2012

I think this is a rather contraversial subject as many mediums anD psychics simply insist that Nanna Jones or Grandpa Simpson are their guides. I can only repeat what Arty and the Others tell me. In life Arty was not only a medical doctor but undertook extensive research into the metaphysical. Understandably then I am reluctant to dismiss his advice because he is my teacher and my mentor. He's not a guide though.



The burning question here is, how come, when it makes such perfect sense for our loved ones to be the ones to guide us from the other side, that they are not.  There are number of reasons the most pertinent being; Spiritual Evolution - When Nanna Jones passes over she hasn't been through enough spiritual learning to be a guide, she doesn't wipe her shoes on heavens doormat and come back without a blink of an eye! What about who was there guiding you before her? Were they just booted out because they were nothing more than a spiritual bookmark now Nanna has made it to the Pearlies? Nope! Most people who can connect with their guides will find they are from another generation. One of mine is a Taoist Monk and another from somewhere in the 1940's. So even in our years in terms of timelines they have both had tens and sometimes hundreds of years to go around the block and learn.  When we die we don't just take a ticket and start a new job. What if we are coming back because we are yet to learn all we need to learn in the human world? What? Do we just stop off to guide a relative because all of a sudden we know all there is not know to guide a mortal? Again. Nope!  Guides are highly evolved spiritual beings that assume their last human form to make themselves known and that is only because we as a race are not advanced enough to recognise them any other way, but we have talked about that before. How in spirit you have no human form any more but they have to manifest one we can relate to so we can ....well relate to them. Higher evolved mediums recognise energy signatures and don't need the visual so much. Not that I consider myself better than anyone else but there are a few spooks now that I know so well by their energy signature that I don't need to see them; Arty, Matt, P, Joe and a few others to name but a few. Communication is easier because they don't need to use that huuge surge of energy to manifest before they speak.

The second issue is emotional attachment and influence. I had a situation in a reading recently where a family member came in and basically did some foot stamping because they wanted things a certain way. I read for a man this week too, who had the spooks of his ex wife's family around him, goading him to go back and that is not something he wanted. Let's not forget until we are sufficiently evolved when we make our way to the afterlife we still have our same personalities, thoughts feelings and emotions. In this case the family of the ex wife were trying to orchestrate things so their family member was happy - just like a normal living family would want. So can you imagine having a guide who has their own personal agenda because they knew you in a mortal life, or are related? It would be chaos because it would be emotionally and not spiritually driven!

The third issue is our attachment to family members. If a family member is a guide (not forgetting that they never are) we will lean on them and attach to them. This means they are largely bound to our energy because we keep thinking about them and are pleased in some way that they are still here, so we keep them here with those thoughts feeling and emotions. Our guides in particular fulfill roles that are required for this particular life lesson. Two of mine are; motherhood (I wasn't a natural trust me but we did ok!) and wisdom.  Clearly things I didn't do too well on my last lap of the globe in terms of me being savvy! If we become emotionally attached then they aren't guiding us because we will tend to ask them "what to do next." Guides are here to just show you what will be if you keep going and then they step back and let you make your choices from there. Guides are also not as visible to the spiritual eye as others because they are further from the earth plane and their energy is more refined, sort of a higher frequency if you like. They hang around more in your spiritual space rather than your human space.

Family members do come and go with helpful suggestions, sometimes interference and other times stark directives to assist on our path but they also have to go off and do their spooky thing so they too can learn and grow. They don't have time to be guides, but they do drop by to help.

Gatekeepers are much the same. Highly evolved beings who give an apparition of identification and their last given name. Mine is John Trumble. I never knew him in life but now that I can identify with him, I can talk to him about protecting me, and who can and can't come in. Obviously the early 1900's was his last fling on the planet so that's how he comes to me. It's his job to man the door to my spook space and clearly by the lessons he learned throughout his earthly beings (he tells me he had 9 stints) he now knows how to guard the gate. And I love him for it, he does an amazing job sometimes under such difficult circumstances because I am a rather spiritually social butterfly!

In short, someone of your own generation or family will never be a guide even if they are around to help often.

Thanks Arty, I think we get it now!  Tomorrow we will talk about how to meet your gatekeeper and form a relationship so you can shore up your protection.

Gremlins in your Head?

Friday November 15, 2013

If you have read my facebook page you will know that I refer to any kind of malevolence, strong or weak, as a gremlin. It's just a turn of phrase, trust me they aren't cute like the little guy to the left!

Sometimes less than friendly energy can be seen, this looks like a swarm of tiny bees, a black shape that is not really any shape at all, it moves and morphs. I have had a few clients who have seen this and I have too. That's energy of an entity not to be confused with a less than friendly person who has passed over. Different thing. Let's also not confuse this kind of energy with a poltergeist either. Different thing too. We are only dealing with the influence of energy at the moment and the impact on the spiritual human.

Many people have questioned whether there is connection between the mental health of a person and their spirituality, specifically moods and attitude. I remember when P first came around me, before I realised she was really there I went through this phase where I dyed my hair black (I am blonde) and started really paying attention to my appearance. I wouldn't even go to the shops in my tracksuit pants! As I got to know and see P I realised this was her influence as it was exactly what she was like, dark haired and always well presented no matter what. When Matt started hanging around with me I developed a real liking for vodka, not a drink I had enjoyed before but his favourite and a big favourite of mine these days I tell you - thanks Matt! You get the picture? We CAN be influenced by the energy around us which goes back to yesterdays blog where we talked about thought energy. Although scientifically spook energy is thought to behave like electromagnetic energy Nikola assures me they are not exactly the same but it is as close as we will get to defining it in my generation.

Another example; Once I was out in the garden pottering about and for some unknown reason I began thinking how useless my life was and how I hadn't achieved anything. NOT TRUE! I checked myself and began questioning why I felt like that? A few days later I started seeing the spook of a young woman in my house...to cut a long story short she had suicided in her 30's. I had "picked up" her energy. I got rid of her and all went back to an even keel and I stopped having such stupid thoughts, I love my life!

How many of us have a sudden thought about a lost loved one for no reason? Is it just a random thought or did they just visit you? Most times it is a passing visit...recently I had a name in my head it was really bugging me as I couldn't see anyone just the name in my head and nothing else. After a while I mentioned it to a guy that works on this property and managed to describe the man (early 1900's bare knuckle fighter) he just looked at me and said "that's my great grandad Sam! Ding! It started with Sam influencing my thoughts with his energy to get his message across!

So how can it go the other way? Instead of us putting out thought energy, how do we absorb their energy and influence other than harmless things like dyeing our hair and boozing on vodka? Sometimes when we "mess" with spook we can pick things up. Unprotected use of ouja boards, irresponsible evp recordings (going into a "haunted place" and just doing it) and other divination techniques that require the input of spook energy. Once they are "through your door" they are there unless they get bored, find someone else to harrass or you get rid of them.  The thing is unless we are open to spiritual concepts we actually believe it is our own thoughts and desires and go with it. So next time you have a dark thought and you wonder why, ask yourself "Do I really FEEL like this?" However don't dismiss guidance from spook when you get the urge to do something good, intuition IS spook energy at it's best and is there to help.

Well, first thing is we must not confuse the human with the spiritual.  Sometimes human people are mean and that's all there is to it. Not every mean person is affected by spook, some people are just plain and simple quite horrid. Sadly their targets are usually the nice people because they are less defensive and refuse to believe the potential for badness in others until it is in their face. When we are affected by spook how do we get rid of them? Well first up it depends how strong they are and what their energy source is. If you are a miserable person who thinks the world is against you, you are practically taking a mean spook out to dinner every night so don't expect anything good to happen any time soon! But what happens if it goes the other way and you were a happy person with a positive outlook and all of a sudden it all turns to the proverbial.  You have possibly picked up a freeloader. If you know a good and reputable medium who doesn't want your firstborn and the shirt off your back, ask them to look around you. Once you have identified it you can target it, if you like. You KNOW what you are dealing with you are ahead of the game already. If it is a mild meanie then usually asking your gatekeeper and your guides to shut the door on it and protect yourself at night (which is when they like to refuel because of your unconscious and largely defenceless state)..ask for it every night and morning though not just once!

Again, we are talking here about the influence of energy around us and not real life. Sh*t happens in real life and sometimes it is just that. What we are dealing with here is our moods and our thoughts because our deeds are largely a matter of our own free will.

I do hope this makes sense people! 

I'm Pink Therefore I'm Spam?

Thursday November 14, 2013

Descartes said "I think therefore I am" and you know what. He was right! Nikola Tesla has been around for a few days and if you have read my book you will know that he gave me some good information on energy transfer as well as the human ability to comprehend the concept of spirituality as a science. He used the word "lacking" a lot as I recall!  He's right, we don't really understand it as a science we only understand it as a show and tell thing, an act, a party trick if you like.

So today Nikola and I decided to talk a little and in general about spiritual energy and the passing between the human and the spook world. I think we have already established that we humans are part spook, but spooks are not part human. We HAVE the spiritual energy that we carry from life to life, it's just the biological bits that are non transferable. So what really happens, according to Nikola and I, when we "think?"

Well going back to the basic principal of physics that we can only reform energy we cannot destroy it, a thought although physically intangible, is an energetic output. This is where the principal of the creation of truth or laws of attraction comes from, but we as people are yet to be able to disconnect enough from our human side to create truth, so wrapped up in the material world are we. The day will come though, if we don't destroy the planet before then but that's a debate for another day. But what actually happens to "thoughts" or as Nikola describes them "thought waves."

Well, we are all surrounded by energy, and if you come to a showing of "Hands Up If You Are Dead" you will see that I can actually prove that. Nothing up my sleeve me and the spooks can prove it to you! Have you ever heard a medium say, "the energy in here is ..blah blah blah ... negative, positive, heavy etc?" What they are feeling is the energy that remains in that space, from yesterday or a hundred years ago. As a passing thought I wonder if anyone has ever felt the energy of a dinosaur? Mmmm. 

Anyway. So when you "think" which is the primary method of communication with spook, it puts an energy out there. If you are thinking sad thoughts, that's the energy you fill your space with, if you are thinking happy thoughts that too. When you go to see a stand up comedian people say that the laughter is infectious. That's because it is! The energy is infectious and we all laugh until we get to a point where we will either laugh at anything or we get the giggles and we leave on a high, having rolled in that energy and entertainment. 

The energy we generate with our everyday thoughts goes out into the wider universe. If you imagine shining a torch at the moon, as it gets further and further away from the source (the light globe) it seems to get weaker. It then forms the energy of the universe which is added to and drawn on like an electricity grid at a power station. That is what happens according to Nikola and Louis.

When you "think" you are actually talking to spook, whichever spook is around you they hear it. If you always think nasty spiteful thoughts then that is the kind of spook that will find it easier to be around you. If you are a relatively cheerful person and so on.  Kind people, no matter their situation, rich or poor, ill or healthy, will generally have quite a few spooks around them. Meanies and nasty people who tell fibs and hurt others will generally have naughties closer in, whilst those who love them are kept on the outer a little. When I read for people I always tell them to think to their loved ones when the energy is quiet and still, generally at night. Most times they hear it but remember there is only so much they can do if you are asking for favours.  Why do you think "silent prayer" became so important in most religions? Because thought is the spiritual side of us, what we think is who we really are and how the two worlds connect. No one else knows what we think unless we tell them, it is what makes us unique individuals as beings and as souls.

Trying to keep this simple, know that it is true if you are always thinking depressed and sad thoughts then that's what you will attract.  You CAN think your way out of a dark mood...if you want to. As you think more positive thoughts, and I am not talking about lotto wins or material things, just focussing on the good and not the bad, then things will begin to slowly "re energise" into a more positive space because your energy will change and thus attract a different and better spiritual energy.

When we think about a passed over loved one and we are sad what are we putting out there what are we doing.  Well, we are telling them we miss them of course but we are also bringing them back in and in some cases can get so obsessed with thinking about them we hinder their spiritual journey, or worse corrupt it and do them harm without realising it.

What you think is alive even if no one else human knows what you are thinking. Remember that.