Me! Me! Me people! It's ALL about me!

Wednesday November 27, 2013

Mediums read and do what they do in different ways. Spooks uses what they have and they run with it. So I thought I would tell you how it works for me. I am always "Spook radar on" which means I am around when they are. I shut the meanies out with the help of Mr Trumble my gatekeeper and sometimes I will say "ok guys I need some time in the human world" and they will go for a while. Most of the time though I'm just floating around in my spook space even when I am in the human world. 

When I read it happens like this; I make sure Arty and P are around, I love P but sometimes she has other stuff to do because New York is a far more exciting place than Maleny! I'll give her that! I simply can't read without Arty and I won't so the poor man is pretty tired most of the time. I can't read unless I have a spook from the clients side in front of me and  talking either. I don't read if no one comes through because I am speaking for them and not making it up in my own head. If I can't see someone then I won't chance the connection is there, ie; wing it witha  psychic read. That's cheating in my book of ethics. You book a medium, you get a medium.

Before a reading I like to sit outside quietly for at least 15 minutes and ask who wants to speak, which spooks want to come through so I can make sure the filter is on and I don't have any gremlins. I read outside because I like natural energy around me. The rule is the good guys come to the bench or up the veranda, the bad guys if they manage to slink in or they are good spooks who think they might not be welcome, tend to come in from somewhere else.  First up I will "feel" them not see them. I will feel their personality energy if you like and whether they are male or female. Once we have that sorted  we can start with the detail . They don't come through if I don't get it right and I will then see a coloured but kind of shadowy figure. Sometimes the whole person sometimes just some of them, it depends on the connection and where they are in their spook evolution. 

I find that people who have passed recently will step through into the physical, ie they are vivid and I can see them clearly and hear them easily. Sadly this usually means their journey has only just begun and they can still tap into what was once their human energy too. I have had a few like that which I have actually had to tell them they they have passed over. 

I rarely "see in my head" when I am reading although on and off if I lose the 'in front of me' connection, that is how I have to get it back and then we work back into getting them with me in my time and space again.

Then they talk, again depending on the connection most times it is just a conversation and with the client around too, on the end of the phone or in person it flows between our energies. I am kind of the every ready bunny just powering it all through for the client and the spook! Normally if they are good humoured they will have a laugh and a joke who they were when they were alive is who they are on the other side. Early on in the reading I look for validations and once we have established who they are. This can be something like what you have done today. One lady I remember her validation was that she was getting her hair done whilst she was talking to me (a phone read!) and that proved to her that the spook we were speaking with could see her and was with her. Once we have given validations I don't dwell on them. It never ceases to amaze me how many people think the reading is all about telling you stuff you already know about yourself! Wha??? That's just medium show off - why would you pay me $60 to tell you something you already know!  It's a waste of money and a rip off!

Validations are there to give you the confidence that when the predictive stuff comes through that it is founded in truth and a good connection.  What most people forget when having a reading is that you are being told what is there for you at the moment. You can alter course. Obviously if I said to you, "I feel your car will be stolen because you will accidentally leave the keys in" you then DECIDE not to leave the keys in any more, your course changes and it's not a prediction it's more like help and guidance. Which is what they are there for, they aren't there to run your life!

I don't like doing readings when people say "What is so and so thinking" it's rude and I simply do not read other people without their permission. I will say "You husband/wife feels unloved and stressed at the moment" but that is about as far as it goes. Don't use me or your spooks to fight your battles for you, this is your human life for you to learn from.

Spook tends to come through thick and fast with me when I am reading and it is here sometimes my bluntness comes in. In a rush to get it all out I tend to just "say it." I am firm believer that if they give it you are meant to hear it though, so if you have a reading me me, be careful what you wish for AND what you ask! I stay away from psychic readings most of the time but will do psychic readings in person. Seriously though, why would you want a psychic reading when you can get the full spook on with a medium!!

The reason I prefer medium is it is more accurate because I can "hear" psychic readings are a feeling of energy and usually involve signs and symbols and not necessarily talking with your spooks. I just prefer someone in front of me, I think it's a confidence thing!

Then after about half an hour or 45 minutes getting our spook on, you get to grill your spooks. It is always a good idea if you have a reading to write questions down because sometimes we all get so carried away we forget stuff. At the end we will identify who is there to help you, who was the main player in the reading and who you should be looking to and talking to for help at this time. This I find is usually one person and they are the last one left at the end of the reading.

If you have a reading with me, we are then lifelong friends, like it or not! You are welcome to ask questions in the future but a new reading is a new reading and I won't answer an email every day because my head would explode and your spook would come and smash plates in your kitchen for being needy! You have my full support after a reading but it does not make me your personal medium but I AM here to help with the support of those who love you! 

Once we have ended our dialogue I thank those who came through, give Arty and P a hug and sit quietly for a little while to let the extra energy drain and level myself off back into the human world. From time to time if a reading is coming up I will get a spook who I can't place and all will become clear when the reading is booked (sometimes of course they know before you do!) and other times they will come back afterwards and I am always happy to shoot off a quick email and pass the message on.

As spook has no need for cash, yours truly keeps all the money! I would pay them if I could and it was appropriate but they seem to be ok with it! I have in the past "visioned" buying Arty a new pipe or P a dress though so they know I appreciate them! 

Tomorrow: Animals and Children